Royal Source Reveals Why Harry and Meghan Didn't Wish Kate On Her Birthday: ‘It's Deliberate’
Once, it was widely known that Prince Harry and Kate Middleton shared a genuinely warm bond. That closeness faded after Harry and his wife, Meghan Markle, moved out of Britain and stepped back from royal duties. Even then, in the Royal Family, it’s often the smallest gestures that matter most: a birthday text, a name signed inside a card, a message quietly passed along by aides. These are the signals that reveal where relationships really stand. Which is why the complete silence around Kate Middleton's 44th birthday did not go unnoticed. According to those familiar with the situation, it wasn’t only a slip. While some see the lack of contact as another fault line in an already strained relationship, the message Middleton appears to be sending is a different one altogether.
According to Rob Shuter’s who took to his substack to spill the beans, that the moment marked another telling shift in the long-fractured relationship between the Waleses and the Sussexes. “Princess of Wales Catherine turned 44 on Jan. 9, and insiders tell me the Sussexes didn’t lift a finger. No card, no text, no email — nothing,” Shuter reports. One palace source framed the omission and said, “Not a peep. It’s deliberate. They’re making it clear they’re done. It’s a line in the sand.”
However, while the silence was being interpreted elsewhere, Middleton herself seemed to be speaking on a completely different wavelength. Kensington Palace chose to mark the milestone in their own unique way – through the release of the final installment of the video series that Middleton has been posting over the past year for Mother Nature. The video is set in the soft light of early morning in Berkshire and depicts the Princess walking alone, reflecting and pacing slowly, talking openly about fear, loss, and gratitude. “Even in the coldest, darkest season, winter has a way of bringing us stillness, patience, and quiet consideration… I find myself reflecting on how deeply grateful I am,” Middleton says in the voiceover.
To those close to her, the timing was deliberate. “This birthday wasn’t about fanfare. It’s about her claiming her own peace,” a source close to the Princess told Shuter. “She’s sending a message without words: she doesn’t need Markle's and Harry’s approval or drama in her life.” Another insider took the point further, suggesting that restraint itself had become Catherine’s most effective response. “The Sussexes are still railing in the media, but Kate? She’s calm, grounded, and moving forward. It’s a quiet power play.”
Still, sources close to the Sussexes reject the idea that the silence was meant as a snub. One insider insists there was no calculated cold shoulder. “They really wanted Catherine to have space,” the source says. “This isn’t spite — it’s respect for what she’s been through.” What is obvious, however, is the contrast in the way both groups respond to the same fraught history. Whereas Harry and Markle do so in a way that is public, through interviews, initiatives, and public comments, Middleton has done so in a way that is more about keeping her peace.