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Ex-Royal Butler Reveals Why Trump May Have Been 'Disappointed' with Camilla After State Dinner

While the US state dinner closely echoed a traditional royal banquet, Queen Camilla, surprisingly, chose not to wear a tiara.

Queen Camilla, King Charles, and Donald Trump pose on the Grand Staircase during the state dinner. (Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Samir Hussein/WireImage)
Queen Camilla, King Charles, and Donald Trump pose on the Grand Staircase during the state dinner. (Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Samir Hussein/WireImage)

The US state banquet hosted for King Charles and Queen Camilla by Donald Trump on April 28 was a lavish spectacle. To make them feel at home, the White House shimmered with chandeliers and candlelight, and a guest list of political heavyweights and dignitaries. While the event closely echoed a traditional royal banquet, Camilla, interestingly, chose not to wear a tiara. According to former royal butler Grant Harrold, her decision may have left Trump slightly underwhelmed, as he is said to favor a classic display of royal pageantry.

Queen Camilla, King Charles, Donald Trump, and Melania Trump at the White House for a state dinner. (Image Source: Getty Images| Andrew Harnik)
Queen Camilla, King Charles, Donald Trump, and Melania Trump at the White House for a state dinner. (Image Source: Getty Images| Andrew Harnik)

Speaking to Marie Claire, Harrold explained the reason behind Camilla's decision, saying, "I think this is just Queen Camilla's modern take on things. Tiaras aren't a thing in the States, they're very much something of a bygone era—so I imagine Camilla just wanted to reflect this with her look for the historic dinner." He added of Trump's take, "I think Trump might have been a bit disappointed as he likes all the royal glitz and glamour." Although tiaras are indeed not a tradition in America, the late Queen Elizabeth still wore them while traveling for state banquets there.

Queen Elizabeth makes a speech during a state banquet at the White House.
Queen Elizabeth makes a speech during a state banquet at the White House. (Image Source: Getty Images| Anwar Hussein/WireImage)

On the late Queen's penchant for wearing tiaras, Harrold continued, "She [Queen Elizabeth] loved wearing them, so wore them whenever the opportunity was there. It was never really a discussion for her." However, he stressed that Camilla's role is majorly different than that of her mother-in-law, making it optional for her to wear a headpiece. "While they both have the title Queen, Elizabeth was the monarch, while Camilla is married to the monarch. So there is a big status difference." Queen Elizabeth has attended four US state banquets throughout her 70-year reign, wearing various headpieces like the Girls of Great Britain and Ireland Tiara, Kokoshnik Tiara, and the Belgian Sapphire Tiara. 

Queen Camilla attends a state dinner at the White House.
Queen Camilla attends a state dinner at the White House. (Image Source: Getty Images| SamirHussein/WireImage)

The former royal butler also revealed how Camilla's British sense of humor would have carried her through any potential awkward questions from Trump. He spilled, "Him [Trump] being the way he is, I imagine he might have asked her [Camilla] where it [tiara] was. She's great with this kind of stuff, so would have just made a joke out of it." As for her opulent jewelry, consisting of a gem-adorned necklace, jewelry expert Nilesh Rakholia said, "The size gives the necklace real presence. There's a balance between opulence and restraint, which is what allows it to work so effectively in a formal setting."

For those unversed, the Presidential couple left no stone unturned, as the state banquet featured a multi-course menu built around seasonal American ingredients. The White House revealed that First Lady Melania curated a seasonal menu, which began with a garden herb velouté and hearts of palm salad, followed by spring herb ravioli with ricotta and morels. The main course featured a lip-smacking Dover sole meunière with potato pavé and fresh spring vegetables, while dessert was a beehive-shaped chocolate gâteau made with White House honey.

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