Home / THE QUEEN / Prince Harry

Queen Elizabeth Had a Key Advice For Harry Before Marrying Meghan, New Book Claims

Queen Elizabeth was reportedly determined to protect Prince Harry, urging him to pause and slow down his fast-moving courtship.

Queen Elizabeth, Meghan Markle, and Prince Harry watch a flypast from the balcony of Buckingham Palace. (Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Max Mumby/Indigo)
Queen Elizabeth, Meghan Markle, and Prince Harry watch a flypast from the balcony of Buckingham Palace. (Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Max Mumby/Indigo)

Various reports indicate that the late Queen Elizabeth was allegedly wary of Meghan Markle and her intentions in joining the royal family. She was also determined to protect her beloved grandson, Prince Harry, urging him to pause and slow down his fast-moving courtship. According to a new book by royal author Hugo Vickers, the Queen had requested the Duke to wait a year before marrying the Duchess after their engagement, but her plea ultimately fell on deaf ears. 

Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Queen Elizabeth II. (Image Source: Getty Images | John Stillwell - WPA Pool)
Meghan Markle, Prince Harry, and Queen Elizabeth pose during an event. (Image Source: Getty Images | John Stillwell - WPA Pool)

In his new book, Hugo Vickers: Elizabeth: Queen, Wife, Mother, Monarch, serialized by The Daily Mail, Vickers sheds light on the late Queen's alleged protectiveness of her grandson. He penned, "The Queen herself suggested that Harry should wait a year. He did not take her advice. Instead, as we know, the wedding went ahead just over six months after the couple's engagement." The Queen's reported doubts about Markle also extended to her wedding day in 2018. He added, "It was said that the Queen did not like the dress, too white and with ungainly shoulders. Someone close to the monarch told me her attitude to the actual wedding was: 'You get on with it. It's nothing to do with me.'" 

Queen Elizabeth II looks on during the wedding of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle. (Image Source: Getty Images | Jonathan Brady)
Queen Elizabeth looks on during the wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. (Image Source: Getty Images | Jonathan Brady)

Furthermore, he alleged that the former Prince Andrew was reportedly jealous of the publicity Harry and Markle's wedding got, compared to his daughter, Princess Eugenie. He continued, "Contrast this to the day, barely five months later, that Princess Eugenie married Jack Brooksbank in St George's Chapel…It did not attract as much publicity, and the Duke of York was annoyed that it would not be filmed for the major networks, though he persuaded a company to record it." As for the Queen, while she beamed at Eugenie's wedding, she was reportedly upset over Markle's decision to wear a veil for hers, despite being a divorcee.

<strong>Meghan Markle and Queen Elizabeth attend a ceremony to open the new Mersey Gateway Bridge.</strong> <em>Source: Getty Images| Max Mumby/Indigo</em>
Meghan Markle and Queen Elizabeth attend a ceremony to open the new Mersey Gateway Bridge. (Image Source: Getty Images| Max Mumby/Indigo)

According to the royal author, the Queen was also in deep 'distress' owing to Harry and Markle's decision to leave the Firm. He stressed, "Family problems with Prince Harry and the then-Prince Andrew, and an increasingly maverick Prime Minister in Boris Johnson, clouded the Queen's brain at the time." He added, "Whenever Prince Harry called his grandmother, she asked her lady-in-waiting to stay with her. The distress the Sussexes caused the Queen in the last years of her life cannot be overestimated." 

As for Harry's take on his grandmother's view of his wife, he wrote in his memoir, Spare, how he brought up his intentions of marrying Markle to her. During a family visit to Sandringham, he found a quiet moment and made his intentions clear. He awkwardly said, "I've been told that I have to ask your permission before I can propose." To this, she reportedly replied, "You have to? Well then, I suppose I have to say yes." The Queen was known for her cheeky sense of humor; nevertheless, her response shocked Harry as he was left unsure how she felt about Markle. 

GET BREAKING ROYAL NEWS
STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX.

More Stories

The expert emphasized that this distinctive pastime came as a seal of approval for the 79-year-old Queen while she was being integrated into the royal family.  
By Mary Anthony · JUL 28, 2026
According to former royal chef Darren McGrady, the late Queen had a dinner-time rule that made evenings at Balmoral feel like something out of 'Downton Abbey.'
By Hrishita Das · JUL 25, 2026
Queen Elizabeth's candid revelation in 2018 shed unexpected light on Prince George and Princess Charlotte's close sibling bond.
By Andrea Cutinho · JUL 21, 2026
Queen Camilla's long-awaited 2005 wedding to King Charles came with more emotion than meets the eye, according to a new book.
By Andrea Cutinho · JUL 20, 2026
According to a new report, his 20,000-acre Sandringham estate is now facing a major rat problem, with nearly 300 homes affected.
By Andrea Cutinho · JUL 20, 2026
Queen Camilla is prepared to move on, but she isn't ready to forgive and trust this royal yet!
By Mehak Walia · JUL 18, 2026
Long before becoming Queen, Camilla's milestone 50th birthday party came with one major royal snub that everyone noticed.
By Andrea Cutinho · JUL 17, 2026
Queen Camilla celebrated her 79th birthday with a new portrait, and a special royal heirloom stole the attention.
By Hrishita Das · JUL 17, 2026
Queen Camilla marked her 79th birthday, and while many people her age are enjoying retirement, she is taking on more royal duties than ever before.
By Medha Sengupta · JUL 17, 2026
Queen Camilla recently showed the public her vulnerable side when she talked about her painful memories.
By Ira Deokule · JUL 16, 2026